Ok I just turned Cache for wholesalecrests.com to OFF,
reloaded the page, and the top nav bar works....
definitely an issue with the abantecart cache when doing multiple sites
this is obviously not optimal and hopefully someone can find a fix
I have left test.allcrests.com online for the time being if anyone wants see this issue
to replicate it go to allcrests.com then switch to test.allcrests.com and the top nav links still point to allcrests.com
Thanks!!