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I installed AbanteCart Cart and have spent over an hour and 2 chats trying in vain to get to the Admin area. I'll have to install a different cart if I can't access the Admin area. What is the point of this cart if you can't customize it?  Yes I have read the threads and nothing works. This is so frustrating and so stupid that the writers would make it so difficult to get started. I don't have time for this.  No matter what I do I get a 403 page.